Back To School Series – Strap-On Supply List

Next on the Adam and Eve Back to School syllabus – strapons! These sex toy sets are great not only for lesbian lovers, but for hetero couples who want to explore their pegging fantasies. There are even hollow strapons that guys can wear for when they want a way to add a few inches without having to resort to pills or cock rings. We’re going to make sure that you’ve got everything that’s on the supplies list in order for you to have a successful first time strapon experience. Are you ready to go through the list and be sure you’re prepared for your lessons?

The first thing to do is establish what you really want out of a strapon. For ladies, you may want a strapon that gives your lover easy access to your own vagina. Crotchless strap ons like the Vac-U-Lock Deluxe Strap-On harness make this much easier than your standard panties style harnesses. Panties style harnesses cover more – which is great for Dommes who don’t want any uninvited touch from their submissive man. Whichever style you choose, look for those that are adjustable and are made from materials that your skin can handle. Some lower end strapon harnesses are made from plastic and PVC – which is fine for some, but a material to avoid for others. You also want to pick out a harness that is somewhat sturdy. A looser fitting strapon could translate to a lot of unintended movements and drooping, especially with heavier dildos.strap-onThe next thing to pick out is your dildo. For the guys that are going for hollow dildo strapons, this choice is somewhat limited. Most hollow strapon systems are already attached to the harness, like the 10” Hollow Dream Strap-On, do you need to balance out the choice in harness with the choice of dildo. For ladies, the options are much wider. If you’ve picked out a Vac-U-Lock harness for your strapon system, you want to be sure to stick with dildos that are compatible. Thankfully, there are a ton of dildo styles to choose from, spanning the range from the lifelike Vac-U-Lock 7” Slim to something a bit more fantasy-like in the Vac-U-Lock Double Penetrator. If your harness has an O-ring system (like the Love Rider Universal Harness), you can pretty much go with any dildo that has a flared base. Keep the weight of the dildo in mind. If you’re harness isn’t tight fitting or sturdy, you may have trouble keeping it up!

The last thing you need to keep in mind when buying your strap on lesson supplies is lubrication. Once again, you need to look at the overall picture. What is your dildo made from? Silicone dildos need water based lubricants. Other dildo materials may be able to take silicone lube without any problems. If you’re going to be pegging, do you want lube that will numb the area, or do you want your lover to feel it all? Usually, the best lube to go with when you are looking to start strap on use for the first time is  simple water based lubricant like the System Jo H2O brand.