My First Try With A Dildo

While I might be quite experienced in the ways of sexual pleasure, it wasn’t always that way. While I do love my sex toys now, I didn’t actually even own one until my third year of college. To be honest, I had never even fathomed owning a sex toy, and I one time I thought they were a perverse and dirty tool that was used by women who were a little too loose for their own good.

first try with a dildoI had a boyfriend at the time named Jim. Jim was one of the first men that I truly let help me explore my sexual side. For a few years it had always been the same generic positions with most of my partners only mixing things up slightly. No one before him had ever really given me something to think about when we went into the bedroom. Jim challenged me to be better in bed both with him and by myself. After about 6 months of dating, I knew never to expect the same thing twice, and I was hardly ever surprised by anything knew that Jim would throw at me. I was sorely mistaken.

We had just gotten back from a great night with friends and started to get a little frisky, like we always do. In the middle of some heated foreplay, Jim stopped, reached into a drawer and pulled out a dildo. I turned red in the face. I knew exactly what I was looking at, but the last thing I thought would happen would be for him to pull one out to use on me. The dildo itself was slightly bigger than Jim, which made me a bit nervous at first. He said, “I’ll just show you once, then I want to watch.”

He carefully put the dildo inside me. It’s realistic shape and jelly feel was a little bit of a shock to me at first, and I was more nervous than turned on. Suddenly, he hit something just right with it that sent me into an absolute rage. He continued moving the dildo around in ways that a man just can’t do on his own. Let’s face it, when you’re attached to a human body, the penis does have its limitations. After a few minutes I was struggling to keep my voice down.

It wasn’t long before I understood why he wanted to watch. I knew exactly what I wanted to do with that dildo, and Jim was kind of missing it. I grabbed it out of his hands and told him it was my turn. For a good several minutes I began to learn the feel of that dildo. I let myself go as Jim watched me do something I had never done to myself before. Don’t worry, Jim was well rewarded for introducing me to my current obsession.

If you’re holding back on trying out a dildo, I highly recommend that you get one. Whether it’s for yourself or your partner, you’ll be blown away at what it can do whether there’s one or two of you in the bedroom.