Using A Vibrator On Your Man

Vibrators are the most popular sex toys used by ladies all over the globe. But, have you ever used a vibrator on your husband or boyfriend?

Even if he’s not into anal play, there are ways that you can use a vibe in the bedroom that will get him turned on as much as you get when you use your little battery operated lover! Here are five tips when using a vibrator on a man:

1. Use a basic, non-realistic vibrator at first. Bullet style vibrators are probably your best bet when using a vibrator with your boyfriend. This will eliminate any issues he may have by getting sexually turned on by something shaped like a penis. Even the most open minded guy may have a worry when comparing the size and girth of his own package to the one that is getting him all hot and bothered. The basic bullet will keep the comparisons to a minimum.

2. Get him used to the vibrating sensation first. This means run it over his clothed body in typically non-sexual areas like his leg, shoulders, neck. Not only will this let him get a feel of how the vibe’s pulses are like on the skin, it’ll also get him accustom to the sounds coming from the toy. Once he is comfortable with that, move onto more sexy areas like his hips, inner thighs and even over his boxers or briefs.

3. Start it on the lowest setting. Don’t crank it up all the way just yet. If your vibe has differing patters, stick to a basic one, such as a steady vibration or a repeating pulse pattern with no change in intensity. Once he has started to get comfortable with the basic setting, then you can start exploring what else your vibrator has to offer.

4. Start with the shaft, then move to the head. The shaft of the penis is far less sensitive than the head. When moving to his nether-regions for the first time, start your action there. Hold your vibrator like a pencil and “trace” lines up and down his penis shaft. Once he’s alright with that, you can move onto the tip. The balls are super sensitive – so much so that some couples wrap the vibrator in her panties to reduce the sensation to a bare minimum.

using vibrator on man5. Use the vibrator during oral sex. When you have his penis in your mouth, press the vibrator against the outside of your cheek, which presses up against his head. The vibrations travel through your skin and can be felt by his super-sensitive tip. This is great for guys who are still a bit antsy about using a vibrator directly, but do enjoy the feeling it provides.