Category Archives: How-Tos

How Will I Know? Love, Infatuation and Gettin’ Hitched

love and infatuation

To quote the late, great Ms. Whitney Houston, how the heck do you know when you are “in love”? Who apparently may not have known, or did know for a while but it changed ala Bobby Brown but I digress.  I’ll tell you this much, when you are, you generally don’t need to pose this question. But alas, love is sometimes not as simple as this. Let’s do the rounds shall we?

Easy Ways to Spice it Up in the Bedroom

spice it up in the bedroom

If you’re in a position where it feels like the sex is starting to get a little stale, you might be thinking that it’s a problem with the relationship. What it could actually be is that the excitement in the bedroom has never really been brought to a high level. Using the basic positions and the same old foreplay is going to get boring really fast.

How to Give the Perfect Head

perfect head

Nothing’s worse than a guy telling you to stop giving him head and just get onto the sex part of your session. I can’t say that I’ve been in that position lately, but in my earlier days, I certainly had a few guys tell me to either stop, or offer me instructions on how to do it better. Frankly, I should thank the ones that offered up their tips (literally).

5 Important First Date Don’ts!

first date donts

1) Don’t Distract Yourself With Your Mobile Devices

We are all guilty of going out with our friends and checking our mobile devices incessantly. I have even gone out with a group of friends and noticed that all six of us where texting, checking email, or posting Facebook updates at the same time rather than actually talking with each other.

Can You Really Break Your Penis?!!

Penile fracture

Most men have heard scary tales about accidentally bending one’s penis in the wrong way and having it break. There was even an episode of Grey’s Anatomy about this back in the day. But, is the broken penis real or just a myth, like Big Foot, or the female orgasm (just joking, don’t hate)? Unfortunately for us guys, it’s real.  Yes, you really can break your penis.

I Can’t Get Sex Out of My Head

get sex out of my head

You know those statements that say “Guys think about sex every 6 seconds?” Guess what, I know, you know, and everyone else knows that guys aren’t the only ones that think about sex all day, every day. There are days that I can’t get sex out of my head, and I’m ready to jump the next guy that I see.

Where to Begin with Strap On for Him

prostate stimulation

The taboo pleasures of prostate stimulation are something I believe every man should try at least once. Male anal play goes back to Greek and Roman cultures and even earlier according to primitive artifacts. This can be a whole new aspect to sex that is just waiting to be explored. The prostate orgasm associated can be quite intense.

How to be Friends with Benefits

friends with benefits

I know I’m not the only guy out there who’s wanted to just be friends with a girl while getting some on the side. We all have our reasons, but in my case, I was simply too work-focused to try and deal with some high-maintenance woman who wanted to cry into my ear three nights a week. So during one of my last several hook-ups, I came to realize that I was going to have to make it a bit clear that I wasn’t interested in anything serious.

Dr. Kat’s Tips For Mind Blowing BJ

Sex Tips From Dr. Kat

Learn the art of giving your guy the bj he’ll never forget only from the clinical sexologist expert, Dr. Kat. Now could be the best time to try them out!

How to Say No to Sex Without Hurting Your Partner’s Feelings

how to say no

Even if you and your partner have a healthy sex life, sometimes they may be in the mood when you are not. The tricky part is telling them no without hurting their feelings. Here are the top 5 ways to say no to sex without crushing your honey’s ego.