Category Archives: Sex Advice

When Is Sleeping Around a Bad Idea

When is sleeping around a bad idea

I tend to be a proponent of casual sex. I think people should generally experience one another sexually sooner rather than later to see if they are sexually compatible. I also think that sex can be used for personal growth. Exposing ourselves to new situations and people, learning the dynamics of relationships and how to communicate properly even with short term partners

Unlikely Celebrity Crushes

Unlikely Celebrity Crushes

Everyone always talks about the Brad Pitt, George Clooney or Hemsworth brother crushes. But most of us harbor secret creepy crushes too. You know, the ones that you would never discuss with your partner or girlfriends because you are too embarrassed for anyone to know?

Bridesmaids Get Cheeky

Bridesmaids Get Cheeky

Wedding season is upon us and of course there are do’s, don’ts and rules to keep up with so we can all compete for the title of best wedding. There’s another wedding trend that we all have to contend with and the consensus seems pretty split as to its appropriateness. Bridesmaids are now baring their bottoms in wedding photo shoots. Yes, the wedding photographer gets the benefit of capturing everyone’s ass in the right light.

Kinky Vs Vanilla

Kinky Vs Vanilla

What does it mean to be kinky? Well, there seems to be quite a spectrum of answers when it comes defining it. It all seems to be very subjective. What seems kinky to you may be par for the course for the next person. It can run the gamut from sex toys, to BDSM, to dirty talk to role playing – and many things in between, but what if as a vanilla person (someone overtly not into kink), you end of coupling with someone who is? What then?

The Prince Charming Fantasy

The Prince Charming Fantasy

We’ve all bought into the fantasy at one point or another. Each of us has an idea of who our Prince Charming really is. We grew up in a culture where the idea of being swept off of our feet by the perfect man of our dreams is what gets reinforced. It’s not just the media that perpetuates the idea either. Our friends and family also have specific ideas about whom we should be with.

Sexy Food Play

Sexy Food Play

Food and sex go together a lot better than you may think. It’s not about rolling around with abandon in a tub of whipped cream (although that might be interesting). Just think about that good old movie classic, 9 ½ Weeks. If any of you young’uns don’t remember it check it out on Netflix. Good sex scenes never go out of style. Anyway, there is a fabulous scene in the movie where food is used in a very sexy and playful manner.

Celebrity Transgender Turn-On

Celebrity Transgender Turn-On

There’s been a lot in the media lately about seemingly heterosexual male celebrities getting it on with transgendered models and social media seems to be what is doing them in.  Hank Baskett former NFL player, who is married (for the moment) to Girl Nextdoor Kendra Wilkinson was allegedly caught in an affair with Ava Sabrina London that involved mutual masturbation, following her passing a lie detector test given by a tabloid.

How to Take A Truly Sexy Boudoir Photo

Sexy Boudoir

I know that it seems like the advent of sexting your pic to hordes of people is all the rage but I’ve been asked by clients more than once, what the best way is to take a truly steamy boudoir photo. A boudoir photo involves more than just lifting your skirt to shoot your ya-ya of the sisterhood. It has a different intention.

Is the Bachelorette a Slut?

Is the Bachelorette a Slut

You would think with all the furor this week over rejected bachelor, Nick Viall’s comment that bachelorette contestant Andi Dorfman betrayed him that there is an apocalypse upon us. The gist of the situation is that Ms. Dorfman had to choose between Viall and another contestant, Josh Murray.

Avoiding the Gag Reflex

gag reflex

Many a woman – and I’m sure a few guys out there have experienced that annoying gag sensation while giving a blowjob. For some it can be a real problem. The feeling of choking or even simply the fear of choking on the penis can cause some to avoid giving blowjobs all together.