Category Archives: Sex Advice

The Best Vibrators Over $100

The Best Vibrators Over $100

Now, I know what you’re saying, who out there would spend over $100 on a vibrator? Well, the answer is more people than you would think. I usually advise clients that if they’ve been through several low-end vibrators over the years that it is indeed time to buy something that will last. If you masturbate or use a vibe in your lovemaking regularly, it really behooves you to ante up and get something good.

Gwyneth Paltrow’s Open Marriage

Gwyneth Paltrow’s Open Marriage

There have been recent reports that part of the demise of Gwyneth Paltrow’s marriage to Chris Martin can be attributed to the fact that they engaged in an open marriage. No one may ever really know for sure but they seem to be getting a lot of heat about both of their alleged infidelities. But if the cheating was in fact not cheating then what is the issue?

Beyonce’s Sexual Empowerment

Beyonce’s Sexual Empowerment

“There is unbelievable power in ownership, and women should own their sexuality. There is a double standard when it comes to sexuality that still persists. Men are free and women are not. That is crazy. The old lessons of submissiveness and fragility made us victims. Women are so much more than that.

“Whatever” Sexual Identity

"Whatever" Sexual Identity

More and more people these days are redefining themselves by avoiding the gay, straight or bisexual labels. There have been several celebrities jumping on this bandwagon too. Maria Bello and Olympian Tom Daley came out but not with a specific orientation. Just that they are either attracted to the same sex or actively dating someone of the same sex. They didn’t rule anyone out either way.

Successful Car Sex

Successful Car Sex

All of us have done it at least once. Whether it was out of necessity or novelty we’ve had sex in a car.  But as a way to mix it up occasionally a little car sex can still be a fun option for those in long-term relationships. It can serve the purpose as a quickie for when parents are out and about or be a place to come together when you don’t want to spring for a hotel.  Is it romantic?

No Fap = No Masturbation

No Fap

I just finished my first Reddit AMA session (that’s “Ask Me Anything” to you non-acronym folks out there). During the course of a session, I actually got a question that I needed to look up. Now in the realm of sexuality this doesn’t happen often for me, so I got a little education myself and now I’m passing it on to you. The question was, “How do you feel about the ethos behind r/nofap?”

Orienting a New Partner to Your Disability

Orienting a New Partner to Your Disability

Give the low down. Really take time to dialogue about your medical condition and physical limitations. Your partner needs to not only know what feels good but what doesn’t and why.

HBO’s GIRLS Gets It Right

role play

There’s a lot of sexuality portrayed on Lena Dunham’s pet project, GIRLS on HBO. Truth be told, I’ve heard many people say that some scenes actually make them feel uncomfortable. There’s a raw honesty to what the characters do on GIRLS. It is an unflinching look at who these young women are and how they are navigating their relationships.

Sex Toys and the Disabled

magic massager

Just because someone has physical limitations, it doesn’t mean that they can’t fully enjoy their sexuality. And sex toys can be a great way for individuals and couples affected by disability to not only get their groove on but to actually assist in the sex act.

Pegging Play

pegging

The term “pegging play” may elicit a few quizzical looks out there. And for good reason, it actually is a fairly new term in the sexual lexicon. It’s simply strap-on sex where a woman penetrates a man’s anus with a strap-on dildo.