Category Archives: Sex Advice

Dr. Kat’s 28 Day Masturbation Challenge

28 Day Masturbation Challenge

If you’re a novice at getting yourself off, you’ll be glad to know that almost all people masturbate in some form or another. Here are a few tried-and-true techniques I’ve come up with over the years. These daily tips can help you make the most of your self-pleasuring.

What to Do When Your Lover is Anti-Lube

lubricants

I’ve had many female clients tell me that their partner isn’t into lube. This can especially become an issue as women enter their early forties. Many don’t seem to lubricate as much despite the fact that some male partners think their wives and girlfriends should be able to get wet on their own. But sex can be painful without enough lube…ouch!

How Kate and Will Can Get Their Post Baby Sex Life Back

post baby sex

It’s baby craziness last week with the birth of the third in line to the English throne. It does seem like Kate Middleton has been pregnant forever but now that the blessed moment has finally arrived, there’s something else Kate and Wills might want to focus on and that is intimacy.

Vibrator Myths

vibrator myths

There are lots of myths when it comes to using vibrators and dildos. Sometimes there can be shades of truth but often the reality is quite different from what you and your partner might think.

10 Keys to Getting Your Libido Up and Running Again

Getting Your Libido Up and Running Again

Low libido is defined as having difficulty becoming sexually aroused. There is no measure of what makes up “enough” arousal. A low libido is a subjective experience and can be measured only by what YOU consider to be not enough sexual desire. This does not mean what your partner thinks is not enough or what you heard your neighbor thinks is normal.

Sexual Healing for Ourselves and Our Kids

Sexual Healing

I get lots of questions from people who have sexual issues, whether it is erection problems or female arousal and orgasm issues. Many of these boil down to how we all got imprinted in our childhoods and teens about sexuality. I’m talking about the messages each and everyone of us received via the media, peers, parents, school, religion etc. Most people have no idea that their presenting issue in therapy is related to negative sex messaging but it comes up more often than not.

Interview with Tristan Taormino about her Guide to Kinky Sex for Couples

guide to kinky sex for couples

What is your favorite part/scene from the movie Tristan Taormino’s Guide to Kinky Sex for Couples?

It’s impossible for me to pick a favorite, so I’ll just tell you what I loved about one particular scene in the film between Asa Akira and Derrick Pierce. Derrick is an incredible dominant, and his interview really speaks to how thoughtful he is about what it means to do a dominant/submissive roleplay.

Kinky Sex Questions Answered by Tristan Taormino

Tristan Taormino's Guide To Kinky Sex For Couples

The following is a guest post from Tristan Taormino, Director of Tristan Taormino’s Guide to Kinky Sex for Couples.

My wife and I have decided to explore some dominant/submissive roleplay, with me as the dominant. I’m nervous about doing it right. Do you have any tips for a beginner?

Cunnilingus Fear – Can Oral Sex Cause Throat Cancer?

Cunnilingus Fear

Actor Michael Douglas, who is currently appearing in the Liberace biopic, Behind the Candelabra, came out this week as saying that his bout of throat cancer he recently experienced  may have been caused by all of the oral sex that he performed on women over the years.

The Pitfalls of Spicy Foods And Oral Sex! – It’s Not Just Bad Breath

spicy food and oral sex

So, it’s date night.  You want to impress. Taking a lover to a nice restaurant is always a nice treat. But, maybe, if you think you have a chance of getting lucky, and are inclined towards oral pleasure, you might want to skip the Mexican and Indian restaurants in favor of more bland fare.