Category Archives: Sex Advice

Sexual Healing for Ourselves and Our Kids

Sexual Healing

I get lots of questions from people who have sexual issues, whether it is erection problems or female arousal and orgasm issues. Many of these boil down to how we all got imprinted in our childhoods and teens about sexuality. I’m talking about the messages each and everyone of us received via the media, peers, parents, school, religion etc. Most people have no idea that their presenting issue in therapy is related to negative sex messaging but it comes up more often than not.

Interview with Tristan Taormino about her Guide to Kinky Sex for Couples

guide to kinky sex for couples

What is your favorite part/scene from the movie Tristan Taormino’s Guide to Kinky Sex for Couples?

It’s impossible for me to pick a favorite, so I’ll just tell you what I loved about one particular scene in the film between Asa Akira and Derrick Pierce. Derrick is an incredible dominant, and his interview really speaks to how thoughtful he is about what it means to do a dominant/submissive roleplay.

Kinky Sex Questions Answered by Tristan Taormino

Tristan Taormino's Guide To Kinky Sex For Couples

The following is a guest post from Tristan Taormino, Director of Tristan Taormino’s Guide to Kinky Sex for Couples.

My wife and I have decided to explore some dominant/submissive roleplay, with me as the dominant. I’m nervous about doing it right. Do you have any tips for a beginner?

Cunnilingus Fear – Can Oral Sex Cause Throat Cancer?

Cunnilingus Fear

Actor Michael Douglas, who is currently appearing in the Liberace biopic, Behind the Candelabra, came out this week as saying that his bout of throat cancer he recently experienced  may have been caused by all of the oral sex that he performed on women over the years.

The Pitfalls of Spicy Foods And Oral Sex! – It’s Not Just Bad Breath

spicy food and oral sex

So, it’s date night.  You want to impress. Taking a lover to a nice restaurant is always a nice treat. But, maybe, if you think you have a chance of getting lucky, and are inclined towards oral pleasure, you might want to skip the Mexican and Indian restaurants in favor of more bland fare.

The Secrets of the Kama Sutra Revealed

kama sutra

The Kama Sutra is the ancient Indian text of how to live a fulfilled life. The most popular section of this work has been its volume on human sexuality. Whether it’s Stiffler from America Pie or Sting extoling the virtues of complicated sex positions and hour-long orgasms, the Kama Sutra does have some benefit for the average couple.

Friends with Benefits

Hans on Sex

Professor Hans von Puppet talks about how today’s women prefer engaging in “casual” relationships. Watch the video to know the Professor’s take on this!

The Last Couple Standing

last couple standing

Just like a child that still adores their old tattered blankie, many of us cling to relationships for the same reason. Our relationships may have been bruised and beaten but somehow that just endears us all the more to them.

Too Comfortable To Be Passionate

comfort or passion

So you freely fart in front of one another and one of you is either tweezing their chin or digging for gold when they get the chance. Being comfortable in your long-term relationship is fantastic, right?

Bad Bachelor/Bachelorette Behavior

bachelorette party

It’s getting to be that time of year again, not just blushing brides and coordinated tuxes for wedding season but beers being shotgunned and the guest of honor’s face in the crotch of some guy or girl who is paid to be there. When did it become a rite of passage to behave badly (one last time) before getting hitched?