Category Archives: Sex Advice

The Magic of Penis Extenders

penis extenders

Sometimes you need a little help to give your woman something a little extra to give her that explosive orgasm. Not a screamer before? After reading this and taking this advice – she will be. One of the most important things to realize in bed is that 1. Confidence is key and 2. There is always help and don’t be afraid to reach out for the lifeline. 

I Have Headache: How Sexual Rejection Can Be Good for You

sexual rejection

I know, I know. Some of you out there are probably applauding that I am now finally giving you a way out of having sex with your dear ol’wife or hubby. Enough of this Dr. Kat nonsense about having better sex all of the time. No. What I am talking about are the realities of life and how even when you are randy and your partner isn’t how there is still some benefit we can take away from it.

How Holding Hands is Good for Your Sex Life

holding hands

At times it seems the longer some couples are together the less they tend to dote on one another affectionately. You know, things like twisting one another’s hair between their fingers, rubbing their backs during long conversations, resting a hand on a knee during dinner or simply holding hands while walking down the street.

Dr. Kat’s Chemistry Quotient: How to Examine Your Relationship

examine your relationship

There are lots of reasons why we choose the partners we do. Sometimes it’s to fulfill the purpose of not being alone, some times it is out of pure unadulterated lust or love. Anyway, they all seem like good reasons at the get go. But then we get into it. You know what I mean. It’s when we cross that threshold from the honeymoon into real life, baby. This is what true compatibility is about and how the Chemistry Quotient can help you.

Bring Up Using a Condom

condom

The Center for Disease Control (CDC) recently reported a sharp decrease in the use of condoms by teenagers. According to their survey, nearly half of all high school students admit to having sex, yet only 60% are using protection. Sixty percent may seem like a lot, but consider that four out of every 10 new HIV infections occurs in people under the age of 30.

Exploring Temperature Play With Glass Dildos

glass dildo

If you’ve ever played with glass sex toys before, you may have noticed that they tend to hold their temperature quite well – especially if you’ve had them in the bottom of your bed side table on a cold night! This can be used to your advantage, though, and open up a new world of temperature play to your sexual experiences.

Favorite Sexual Positions

Hans on Sex

Penny Loves to be on the top while Professor Puppet wants to be at the bottom. What a perfect match!

My Advice on Slow or Rough Sex

sex

Smooth, hard, or fast. I get this question a lot from men and women about what the best pace is in bed. 

How to Please Men vs Women

pleasing your partner

The assumption is that often women need to be pleased on more of an emotional level and men are more physically driven but I’d be wary of making this assumption for everyone. All of us want to be sexually satisfied emotionally and physically in the long haul.

How To Give An Incredible, Sensual Massage

sensual massage

The best part of anniversaries is that, technically, everyday can be a celebration of the first time you met your lover.   The question is, on that special night, how do you give your lover a night to remember. In my book, massages are the best gift to give no matter what the circumstance is.