Deep Throating Advice From The Pros

We get a lot of questions on our Facebook and Twitter accounts asking about oral sex. What are the best blow job techniques?  How do you deep throat? Is there anything I can do to stop gagging during oral sex? Our team at Adam and Eve sat down with Charlotte, an adult movie star with a talent for all things oral, and sought out her advice for lovers like us who want to improve our oral skills!

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Let’s start off with the basics – what makes a good blow job? Well, I think it’s best to start off by saying that the blow jobs you see in porn movies may look cool, but the technique you see isn’t the best as far as feeling goes. Adult movies are more about the visual. So when you’re actually going down on a guy, you want to concentrate more on the sensation. Use your lips and your tongue to rub against the head and shaft. Look into your partner’s eyes when you’re going down on them. Use your intuition to tell you what he’s into and what can pass.

Then does deep throating really not matter? Depends on your guy. Some fellas really love the whole visual of their penis going down your throat. There are a couple of tricks we use to get that going on camera. For girls who gag a lot – especially those who are just starting out – they use desensitizing sprays on the back of their throats to get their gag reflex a bit more relaxed. Another trick that we use on the screen is actually go to down on a guy while he’s soft. It’s a hell of a lot easier to get a whole dick in your mouth when he’s not hard. But, in real life, this doesn’t do much for the guy unless he’s into watching it rather than feeling it.

So for the lover who isn’t worried about deep throating, what are some other tricks to do the best BJs? I think it’s all about communication with your man. Some guys love having their balls played with while they are getting sucked off, others hate it. Some guys like a bit of teeth, some want you to wrap your lips around your teeth so they don’t feel them. One of the best tricks I learned is for guys who want their whole shaft having sensation is to keep the head into your mouth, and use your tongue to satisfy that end. Then wrap your hands around the shaft and stroke him in rhythm with your mouth movements. I’ve been told that because it’s all one motion, it almost feels like the entire penis is in your mouth.