Hi I’m Dr. Kat and I’m here for your sex tip of the day. Today’s sex tip has to do with how to execute that first kiss. You know what I’m talking about. The anticipation, the excitement, and the fear of rejection. Nah, it really has something to do with timing and paying attention to your intuition about when that timing might be good. Watching for social cues is really helpful. So if you find some up-close personal space, a lot of eye contact, most people can energetically feel when the right time to swoop in is.
I’m also for kind of starting slow, whether it’s a hug or kissing the cheek and kind of moving into the mouth. Soft, slow kisses upfront usually can help you gauge how receptive the other person is going to be. Otherwise, tilt your head, close your eyes and find the rhythm. There’s nothing more enjoyable than a nice, long session of making out. Other tips that you can use, I suggest do pay attention to your oral hygiene, do not go to full court press sort of kisses, or slobbering or kind of getting out of control. A lot of people really sense the energy of the flow of what it’s like to kiss the other person and what is working for them. So I’ll say take your time, start slow and find the good rhythm.