Bondage for Beginners

A little bondage can be fun. People usually wonder where to start, but it’s really as simple knowing what tools to use, a few tips and tricks, and also the dispelling of some myths. Bondage can be an exciting experiment to try in bed, and who knows – you might really like it.

When people think of bondage their mind usually goes to the extreme – people have the preconceived notion that either it hurts or it’s for total freaks. But its not for freaks and just like the heat on the stove you can turn it to just a simmer or full blast depending on what the recipe is for the night. And it can be painful in a good way – an erotic way.

To start, you and your partner need to decide who will be the sub and who will be the dom – let your own personalities decide this – you will know what your roles are. If you are a beginner you might want to start off with a nice sexy satin blind-fold. Make your partner strip down to nothing and make them wear a blind-fold – this should start heating things up. After blindfolding your partner tell them to lie down on the bed.

If you really want to get kinky, find some kind of restraint system or an underbed restraint system designed specifically to attach to the bed. Once they’re restrained and blindfolded you can start doing things to them with your fingers, mouth, feet or more. Take a feather duster, a whip or a riding crop to spank them, slap them, or lightly torture them with tickles (if they’re ticklish). If you want to get really kinky you can involve a ball gag, but only if you’re partner is into it.

If you don’t like being tied to the bed you can get other kind of restraints. Hand cuffs can be sexy and so can tape, rope and ties. Getting tied up can be extremely erotic and fun. If you want to get extreme you can involve kits that involve metal bars and cuffs. If you want to get really, really wild there are full S&M kits that will tie your hands, legs and more to not just the bed, but also the wall, the door and even your own partner. The key is that you and your partner has to be into it – or else it won’t be fun and it certainly won’t be sexy. Browse the selection of bondage tools and perhaps start somewhere that works for both of you and go from there. Think of bondage as extreme foreplay and you could cook up something really delicious.