http://blog.adameve.com/sex-advice/dump-your-selfish-lover/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=dump-your-selfish-lover Sex Advice, How-Tos and Adult Industry News Tue, 18 Jun 2013 12:08:14 +0000 hourly 1 http://blog.adameve.com/sex-advice/dump-your-selfish-lover/#comment-1431 Peachez N Creamz Mon, 11 Jun 2012 20:26:43 +0000 http://blog.adameve.com/?p=5215#comment-1431 I am in one now. I have to literally beg for sex when I want it, something I am NOT used to. I have been dealing with this for years and years now. I want to be spontaneous and have as much sex as possible with my husband, but he dishes it out like dog food to an alley mutt. There is no intimacy, no hugging, no kissing...NOTHING. And the more I push for more intimacy, the more I get ignored. WTF??? All he wants to do is be on FaceBook, and its really starting to piss me off! I dont think he is cheating, but I do believe he is just like the person described in the Selfish Lover article. He has ED and I think is is very insecure about himself and about our relationship. The more I tell him he has nothing to worry about, the more he worries. But a person can only take so much and it is in no way fair to me. Hell, if its gonna be a minute worth of sex than make everything leading up to that minute worth it. Advice I give him that continually falls on deaf ears. I dont know what to do. I really love him and we have been together forever. But I am so emotionally and physically unsatisfied. Even vibrators can only do so much... I am in one now. I have to literally beg for sex when I want it, something I am NOT used to. I have been dealing with this for years and years now. I want to be spontaneous and have as much sex as possible with my husband, but he dishes it out like dog food to an alley mutt. There is no intimacy, no hugging, no kissing…NOTHING. And the more I push for more intimacy, the more I get ignored. WTF??? All he wants to do is be on FaceBook, and its really starting to piss me off! I dont think he is cheating, but I do believe he is just like the person described in the Selfish Lover article. He has ED and I think is is very insecure about himself and about our relationship. The more I tell him he has nothing to worry about, the more he worries. But a person can only take so much and it is in no way fair to me. Hell, if its gonna be a minute worth of sex than make everything leading up to that minute worth it. Advice I give him that continually falls on deaf ears. I dont know what to do. I really love him and we have been together forever. But I am so emotionally and physically unsatisfied. Even vibrators can only do so much…

]]> http://blog.adameve.com/sex-advice/dump-your-selfish-lover/#comment-1427 Kristen Quint Fri, 08 Jun 2012 16:19:34 +0000 http://blog.adameve.com/?p=5215#comment-1427 I had a selfish lover for about 7.5 years, i dont know or understand how i could have delt with that for that long but, oddly enough, i did. He would never have sex with me when i wanted it, nor would he go down on me or finger me or anything for me. Instead, he would just do whatever worked for him and then after he came he would get up and go back to either drawing pokemon porn or go play move video games and talk to his friends over the internet. I would have to be the one to finish myself off and clean up the bedroom and all that. it was majorly retarded. I have hard luck with guys anyways, it seems that i can only find the selfish ones. Any tips on how to find a not selfish one? I had a selfish lover for about 7.5 years, i dont know or understand how i could have delt with that for that long but, oddly enough, i did. He would never have sex with me when i wanted it, nor would he go down on me or finger me or anything for me. Instead, he would just do whatever worked for him and then after he came he would get up and go back to either drawing pokemon porn or go play move video games and talk to his friends over the internet. I would have to be the one to finish myself off and clean up the bedroom and all that. it was majorly retarded. I have hard luck with guys anyways, it seems that i can only find the selfish ones. Any tips on how to find a not selfish one?

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