Valentine’s Day is coming up in the next few weeks, and you’ll probably notice the number of commercials for singles sites on the rise. With the fact that there are a seemingly endless number of dating sites on the internet, how do you know which one is best for you? The team at Adam and Eve
have pooled together a few tips to make your decision that much easier.
Location, Location, Location. While the majority of dating sites cover all the United States, chances are you’re searching for someone a bit closer to home. Try and find a site that draws is members from a specific area. This is especially important if you happen to live outside America, and would prefer not to be restricted by the smaller “international” areas that a lot of US-based sites have. Even if you are American, if you are living in New York City, you’ll be more likely to have a successful dating life with another person within the boroughs than you will from a few time zones away.
Finding a dating site
Find sites specific for your ‘type’. For those ladies who prefer a man in uniform, there are actually dating sites on the net that tailor to your specific idea of Mr Right. This is the same for those with certain kinds of fetishes like bondage and dominance, or ladies who aren’t looking for a longer term relationship and prefer a few one night stands to get them through the cold nights. Before you get a bit judgemental, think about it. Joining a ONS dating site beats trying to shrug off a guy you met at a club who wants a bit more. At least you both know going into it that you’re just looking for a warm body that night! If you have a type, more than likely there is a dating site out there for you.
Don’t lie in your profile. Would you want to have a second date with a guy who is nothing like the guy who’s profile you have been scouring for the last few days? The same goes for him. Everyone who joins dating sites are looking for at least a few specific qualities. Don’t waste anyone’s time saying that you’re a Rhodes Scholar with a 34DD chest when you’re nowhere near that. You want to find someone who likes you for who you are, not some imagined persona on a screen.
Throwing all your eggs into one basket isn’t a great plan. Join multiple dating sites. Try one of the biggies that you see on TV, and also try a couple smaller groups that are aimed at niche groups (big beautiful women, residents of DC, or nurses). You’ll open yourself up to a few more pools of guys, and in the event that you get flooded with dating offers, you’ll have the pick of the litter rather than settling for someone you aren’t too crazy about.
Keep in mind that dating sites also tend to run specials during the holidays. Keep an eye open for free trial weekends, promotional offers, and other ways to save money when you’re looking to sign up for a site. If you have any friends who are currently on dating sites, see if they have any offers for sign-ups, where both the member and you can benefit.