Hi I’m Dr. Kat and I’m here for your sex tip of the day. Today’s sex tip is how to talk dirty to your lover. You know a well-placed expletive here there can really turn the heat up. And the good way to get over the awkwardness is go to the library or go online and find some erotica. That way you can practice at home, by yourself, even in front of a mirror. Usually it’s just the fact that you’re not used to say those words in mixed company. And once you get that comfort level, you can break them out when you’d like to with your lover.