Is There Such A Thing As Too Big A Penis

Another question from our readers, this time from Anabelle. She’s worried that her boyfriend’s penis is just too big for her. Do you have a question for our experts? Leave us a comment below, or catch us on Twitter or Facebook!

Is There Such A Thing As Too Big A Penis

My boyfriend has a big penis – I mean porn star big! The problem is, when we have sex it usually hurts. I’m worried that us having sex is doing some kind of permanent damage to my insides, and I’m also worried that he’s not getting enough out of our sex because he can’t go in me all the way. Am I just being silly? Is there anything I can do to make myself ‘bigger’?

Anabelle’s worry is actually not that uncommon. Remember the first time you had sex, and more than likely it hurt a bit? Not only was that pain from your hymen possibly breaking, it may have also been the fact that you weren’t used to having anything that size inside your vagina before. But, over time, you got used to the size. You need to go through a similar process with your well-endowed boyfriend. Start slow and choose positions that easily lend themselves to slower sex, such as sex while spooning or the missionary position. Going slow is the key. It is very possible for you to tear or bruise your insides if he goes to hard, too fast, or too deep before you are ready. Sex positions like doggy style or cowgirl (lady on top) are ones to stay away from until you are more comfortable with your partner’s size.

You also want to encourage your body to produce its own natural lubrication. Sometimes this means that you start off using a commercially produced sex lube until you are turned on enough to be making your own. In this case, wetter certainly is better!

Keep in mind – a woman’s body is designed to give birth to a multi-pound child. Having a significantly smaller penis going the other way isn’t too hard of a feat!