Tips and Tricks for the Perfect Blowjob

Finding out how to give the best blow jobs possible can be a bit of a tricky situation. If your man isn’t the type to let you know what he likes, it can be quite the guessing game. Our sex advice team at Adam and Eve gathered up a group of men and told them to let us know all of those things they wish their partners would do while they were down there. With the promise on anonymity these guys opened up and let us know their deepest desires.

1. No teeth, but lots of tongue. Basically, if it’s not warm and wet, it shouldn’t be touching a dick. This is especially important when you are giving attention to a guy’s most sensitive part of the penis- the head. Use your hot tongue to flick and tease his member, but lay off the teeth. It might seem at bit exciting to graze your pearly whites against his rock hard body, but it’s actually a mega turn off to many guys.

2. Be open to new things. This means involving different kinds of toys in your oral sex session, including anal sex toys. If your guy is up for it, you should be as well. A man’s “p-spot” is best accessed through the behind, so don’t automatically assume that if a guy wants his ass played with, he’s gay. It can be the icing on the cake when it comes to the perfect blow job. If he’s not up for back door stimulation, he may want to try out a small bullet vibe on his balls. See, you can share your toys! Keep in mind, though, that not every guy likes the additional stimulation – especially if he is prone to shoot off sooner than he’d like to. For some men, it’s all about the single action and concentration on that one source of stimulation.

3. Don’t concentrate on just the shaft. Like we previously mentioned, the tip of the penis is much more sensitive than the rest of the member. In addition, you should also give a little attention to the balls as well. They appreciate some tongue licking and while they won’t make him come exclusively, they’ll help your overall performance. You can also use your hands to your advantage, and keep them busy.

4. If you are really enjoying yourself, let him know that. A few moans (real, not “porn star over the top”) and some dirty words can turn him on almost as much as your mouth can. The best thing, according to the majority of the men on our panel, is when a woman gets so turned on herself that she gives herself a hand and gets herself off while working on getting him to come. Simultaneous orgasm is as close to bliss as you can get!

5. Be into it! A guy can always tell when a woman doesn’t really want to give a blow job. Enthusiasm is one of the best oral sex tools that a woman has in her collection of tips and tricks. If you really don’t like blow jobs, or are a bit adverse to certain things that you think he likes (like swallowing or butt play) communicate that with your partner. Oral sex may seem like a one way street, but there are two people’s desires and emotions involved.