Women on Top – Taking Control in the Bedroom

I think a lot of times women expect men to be the ones to initiate sex. In truth, most men I know would like it to be a 50/50 split. When my girlfriend initiates sex it reminds me that I am still attractive to her, that she still desires me. I know as the guy I am supposed to be all confident and manly. But, it matters.

I especially I love it when my girlfriend asserts herself and takes control in the bedroom. There is absolutely nothing more boner-fying than when I am told to lay down and be a good boy. The first few times, it was amusingly awkward. We both had to learn to let our guard down.

She was shy at first, not wanting to look silly as she rode me and controlled the pace of the lovemaking. We had a lot of giggles. But once she got the hang of how to anchor herself and establish a rhythm she enjoyed, it was honestly the best, most satisfying sex of my life. Also, when she is on top, it gives me a chance to touch and caress her beautiful body and breasts in ways that are impossible when I am on top. It’s a fantastic change of pace.

This is just one man’s opinion. I don’t profess to be any kind of sexual expert. So, I am really interested in hearing your experiences.

What do you think? Please leave your comments and stories!

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