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HBO’s GIRLS Gets It Right

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There’s a lot of sexuality portrayed on Lena Dunham’s pet project, GIRLS on HBO. Truth be told, I’ve heard many people say that some scenes actually make them feel uncomfortable. There’s a raw honesty to what the characters do on GIRLS. It is an unflinching look at who these young women are and how they are navigating their relationships.

Sex Toys and the Disabled

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Just because someone has physical limitations, it doesn’t mean that they can’t fully enjoy their sexuality. And sex toys can be a great way for individuals and couples affected by disability to not only get their groove on but to actually assist in the sex act.

Pegging Play

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The term “pegging play” may elicit a few quizzical looks out there. And for good reason, it actually is a fairly new term in the sexual lexicon. It’s simply strap-on sex where a woman penetrates a man’s anus with a strap-on dildo.

All About Fetishes

All About Fetishes

It’s a word we miss-use all the time. Much like the word addiction, we have forgotten or never knew the true meaning. I’m talking about the word “fetish”. You know how people say, “Oh, I so have a fetish for Louboutin shoes” or rocky road ice cream or any item anyone wants to insert? We use it because it’s an interesting and easy word to throw in the mix to convey how obsessed or how much we like something or someone.

Tori and Dean: Cheating, Sex Addiction and Differences in Desire

Tori and Dean: Cheating, Sex Addiction and Differences in Desire

Tori Spelling and Dean McDermott are going through quite a public rough spot right now. After months of cheating allegations and the insinuation of a sex addiction now that he has checked himself into rehab (I know, what don’t people go to rehab for these days), their relationship seems to be in a holding pattern of “should we stay or should we go”?

Disability and Sex Props

Disability and Sex Props

At AdamandEve.com, we’ve received many questions about how to assist those with physical disabilities in enjoying sex more. There’s a plethora of products that can be used to facilitate sex by making it easier and more pleasurable for those with physical limitations. Here are just a few that we carry.

Why Guys Get to Come By Default and Women Don’t

Why Guys Get to Come By Default and Women Don’t

This is the way that it has seemed since the dawn of time. Women — if we get off it’s by happenstance or major elbow grease. Ok, ewe that sounds gross. But you get what I mean. For most women we have to either make sure we are in the right position, manually stimulate ourselves and/or do some serious fantasy work in our heads to get off on a regular basis

Why Porn Isn’t the Problem

Why Porn Isn’t the Problem

Is porn a problem? This is a very often-asked question in my office. And it can be quite the loaded question because many assume that all porn is bad, therefore all porn is a problem, right? But not so, plenty of studies have found that porn consumption can be a healthy part of someone’s sex life.

Sexual Astrology

Sexual Astrology

Is there anything to sexual astrology? Can where and when you were born determine who is the best sex partner for you? I spent years editing and working with an astrologist at another website. Often times, as happenstance when a client would casually mention their sun sign, I’d remember back to the calculations the astrologist did and most of them were dead on. A little spooky? A little hokey? Perhaps.

Dildo 101

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Why use a dildo rather than a vibrator? Some people like to feel more in control of sensation, while others feel it is more realistic looking and feeling to a real penis. Regardless, I’ve got some basic guidelines for you that will help you get the most pleasure you can from your dildo play.