Tag Archives: Dr. Kat
Sex When the Going Gets Tough
Shit happens and for those in a partnered relationship it can be especially taxing on the ol’sex life. Whether it is trouble with the kids, health issues or money problems, how do couples continue to connect physically with one another?
I Want to Be Alone: When Couples Stop Sharing a Bed
I grew up with parents that not only had separate beds but they each had their own room. I, at some point, realized that this wasn’t normal. All my friends’ parents seemed to share not only a room but a bed. I never thought much about it.
Penis Enlargement: The Good, the Bad and the Ugly
I’ve recently gotten a few e-mails asking about surgical penis enlargement. The first thing I have to say is let’s slow down here. There are so many options to discuss before even mentioning surgery.
Sexy New Year’s Resolutions – Start the New Year with a Bang
New Year’s resolutions are great. They can be a catalyst for a lot of positive change — and they can also fizzle out within a month. I get the feeling that maybe you’d like to experiment with a few new tricks while adding some new sexual behaviors to your long term repertoire to keep things fresh.
Whispering Sweet Nothings and Talking Dirty
By nature some people are just more verbal. You know the ones at the coffee shop who just never shut up. It may make you think how verbal they are in bed. Which can be a good thing or in some instances a bad thing if oral rhetoric during love making drives you nuts.
New Year’s Resolution: Sex Stay-cation
The new year is upon us and I’d like to take the time to point out that whoever you are out there that your sex life could use a little tune up. Yes, it’s a bit like spring cleaning but what better way to improve your partnered relationship.
Hope has Sprung: Can People Really Change
I finally got around to watching the movie Hope Springs this weekend. Several therapist friends have been on me to see it for awhile. I have to admit most films tend to mutilate the process of therapy on screen.
Spic and Span Sex
I get lots of questions about sex and hygiene and boy, do they run the gamut. Usually from women who feel that they are never clean enough when it comes to their vaginas to men who are into “dirty” sex. There seems to be a lot of conjecture out there in regards to how clean we do or do not need to be.
I Have Headache: How Sexual Rejection Can Be Good for You
I know, I know. Some of you out there are probably applauding that I am now finally giving you a way out of having sex with your dear ol’wife or hubby. Enough of this Dr. Kat nonsense about having better sex all of the time. No. What I am talking about are the realities of life and how even when you are randy and your partner isn’t how there is still some benefit we can take away from it.
How Holding Hands is Good for Your Sex Life
At times it seems the longer some couples are together the less they tend to dote on one another affectionately. You know, things like twisting one another’s hair between their fingers, rubbing their backs during long conversations, resting a hand on a knee during dinner or simply holding hands while walking down the street.
