Tag Archives: Dr. Kat

Why Guys Get to Come By Default and Women Don’t

Why Guys Get to Come By Default and Women Don’t

This is the way that it has seemed since the dawn of time. Women — if we get off it’s by happenstance or major elbow grease. Ok, ewe that sounds gross. But you get what I mean. For most women we have to either make sure we are in the right position, manually stimulate ourselves and/or do some serious fantasy work in our heads to get off on a regular basis

Why Porn Isn’t the Problem

Why Porn Isn’t the Problem

Is porn a problem? This is a very often-asked question in my office. And it can be quite the loaded question because many assume that all porn is bad, therefore all porn is a problem, right? But not so, plenty of studies have found that porn consumption can be a healthy part of someone’s sex life.

Sexual Astrology

Sexual Astrology

Is there anything to sexual astrology? Can where and when you were born determine who is the best sex partner for you? I spent years editing and working with an astrologist at another website. Often times, as happenstance when a client would casually mention their sun sign, I’d remember back to the calculations the astrologist did and most of them were dead on. A little spooky? A little hokey? Perhaps.

Dildo 101

dildo

Why use a dildo rather than a vibrator? Some people like to feel more in control of sensation, while others feel it is more realistic looking and feeling to a real penis. Regardless, I’ve got some basic guidelines for you that will help you get the most pleasure you can from your dildo play.

How to Find the Humor in Sex

How to Find the Humor in Sex

Most of us take sex pretty seriously. When things go wrong, when we feel like our partners aren’t paying attention to us, when we’re dealing with a sexual dysfunction; things can seem downright heavy. After all, if we mishandle these difficult moments we create more stress and thereby add additional pressure to the situation. Insert, “wah-wah” — what a sex killer.

Know Thyself: The S-exam

Know Thyself: The S-exam

How to Do a Sex Exam

Ever heard of a Sexological Exam? Or S-exam for short? No need for a doctor. It’s a practice to help you really learn about your body. True, many of us go through life having sex, periods, and giving birth without knowing what we look like “down there”.

Three Wedding Night Mistakes

Three Wedding Night Mistakes

Ah, the wedding night — so romantic and sexy. But often our wedding nights end up being less stellar than what we had hoped for. After the pressure of staging the “perfect” wedding, many of us expect the “perfect” wedding night. Most of us have fantasies of how the night will unfold (whether you are a virgin or not).

How to Avoid Getting Cheated On (Over and Over)

How to Avoid Getting Cheated On

It happens and we all dread it. Being cheated on. For some of us it ruins our faith in all new potential partners and for others it strengthens our resolve to find the right partner. Getting your heartbroken for the first time is one thing, yes it can take all of the romance out of looking for love but being cheated on multiple times is sheer hell.

Why I Am A Sexologist – By Dr Kat

Why I Am A Sexologist - By Dr Kat

There aren’t too many Sexologists out there and since it is a small community most of us know one another. There is one constant that we all seem to get asked many times over the course of careers though. How did you choose to become a Sexologist? The term “sexologist” sounds suspect to many from the beginning.

Tumblr’s True Sex Stories

Tumblr's True Sex Stories

Would you ever divulge your deepest, darkest sexual secrets on the internet? Well, many women are thanks to Tumblr’s dotellstories that anyone can follow.