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Testicles Need Love Too

Testicles Need Love Too

Love them, hate them or simply in wonder of them, testicles play an important role in the sex act and they shouldn’t be left out of all of the pleasure. If you ask most men about their testicles and perineum (that little patch of skin between the top of the testicular sack and the anus), most would say that they would love for their partners to spend more time in the area.

Why We Have Sex

Why We Have Sex

Why do we have sex? Well, beyond the fact it feels good it seems that there are two main motives behind our desire to get down. Two recent studies from the University of Toronto examine two broad rationales behind sex in long term relationships. Basically it all comes down to avoidance or approach.

Exploring Sensation Play

Exploring Sensation Play

When I tell people I went through a sensorium exercise in school they look at me pretty perplexed. In the years since, I’ve suggested sensoriums for clients. Sensoriums are simply an exercise where one person is blindfolded and led to a room that is filled with as many non-visual sensory experiences as possible.

Video: Fifty Shades of Grey Please Sir Flogger

Fifty Shades of Grey Please Sir Flogger

“He skims the strands against my body at an aching, languorous pace. “Have you had enough yet, Ana?” Christian whispers in my ear. “Oh, please,” I beg. The flogger’s sweet sting bites into my behind. “Please what?” I gasp. “Please, Sir.”

Open Letter to Hugh Hefner: Mastectomies for Hire

Open Letter to Hugh Hefner: Mastectomies for Hire

Hiya Hugh,

You don’t know me but I know you and your publication from years of masturbatory bliss and buying into the Playboy standardization of beauty. Yes, I realize that I am a trained sexologist and mother of two daughters and that I should somehow feel marginalized by your portrayal of women as sexual play toys but I just don’t see it that way.

5 Tips to Seducing Him

5 Tips to Seducing Him

Men often love to be seduced. Since men generally have the burden of initiation and seduction, turning the tables on him can make him feel wanted and attractive — while you get to experience your own, more active, erotic energy in a very powerful way.

Video: Inner Goddess Silver Pleasure Balls

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Dr. Kat shares her review of Fifty Shades of Grey Collection, starting with Inner Goddess Silver Pleasure Balls. Watch the video to know if this one’s perfect for you.

Lelo Gigi Pleasure Object

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The Lelo Gigi Pleasure Object features 5 specialized vibration modes. And you can even adjust the intensity of each vibration mode, creating dozens of different combinations for you to try!

Dr. Kat’s Toy Review of the Week – Lelo Ina Pleasure Object

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This stylish vibrator doesn’t just look good – it’s got 2 powerful motors and 8 vibration modes to please you like nothing else! Watch Dr. Kat’s review of this week’s featured sex toy, the Lelo Ina Pleasure Object.

Modern Dads/ Modern Sex/ Modern Relationships

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Ok, so I questioned the validity of this reality show initially and I must admit that from the promos, it looked all like beer, beef, football, poker games and complaining about the wives. But I was pleasantly surprised. I jumped into an episode in which Sean (the step-dad) freaks out that his kids can hear him and his girlfriend having sex — something I think most of us are concerned about at one time or another.