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Mature Sex – Challenges as You Age

mature sex

It’s an old wives tale that we have to get less sexual as we get older. Yes, we may have a few more challenges to getting in the mood or finding comfortable positions in which to get it on but the beauty of it is that we also learn to slow down and smell the roses. We learn to truly appreciate the act and our partner with age in a way that we couldn’t have when we were younger.

5 Tips to Seduce Her

5 Tips to Seduce Her

Women want to feel appreciated, safe and secure in the sex act. All three are important when seducing women. Here are more tips to get her in the right ‘head-space’ for sex.

Chelsea Manning May Have to Man Up?

gender dysphoria

It’s been heard to escape the story over the last few weeks. Not only do we have the drama of national security leaks but now we have the real struggle of someone who has been gender dysphoric and how that will pay out in a military prison. We couldn’t have made this stuff up if we tried.

Dr. Kat’s 28 Day Masturbation Challenge

28 Day Masturbation Challenge

If you’re a novice at getting yourself off, you’ll be glad to know that almost all people masturbate in some form or another. Here are a few tried-and-true techniques I’ve come up with over the years. These daily tips can help you make the most of your self-pleasuring.

Dr. Kat’s Toy Review of the Week – Lelo Luna Ben Wa Balls

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Dr. Kat gives a review of this week’s featured sex toy, the Lelo Luna Ben Wa Balls. Watch the video to find out if this toy is the right one for you!

The Long and the Short of Labia

the long and the short of labia

I hear from women all the time about how they worry about whether their vulvas are “normal”. They’ve somehow gotten the idea that everyone must look the same down there. Perfectly sized labial folds and demure little clitorises. I spend a lot of time reminding them that everyone is indeed, unique.

What to Do When Your Lover is Anti-Lube

lubricants

I’ve had many female clients tell me that their partner isn’t into lube. This can especially become an issue as women enter their early forties. Many don’t seem to lubricate as much despite the fact that some male partners think their wives and girlfriends should be able to get wet on their own. But sex can be painful without enough lube…ouch!

How Kate and Will Can Get Their Post Baby Sex Life Back

post baby sex

It’s baby craziness last week with the birth of the third in line to the English throne. It does seem like Kate Middleton has been pregnant forever but now that the blessed moment has finally arrived, there’s something else Kate and Wills might want to focus on and that is intimacy.

Vibrator Myths

vibrator myths

There are lots of myths when it comes to using vibrators and dildos. Sometimes there can be shades of truth but often the reality is quite different from what you and your partner might think.

I Love You Amy Schumer

Courtesy of Comedy Central

Yes, I have a girl crush. My main girl crush for years, namely Chelsea Handler has been supplanted. It’s ok Chelsea. You and I are still twins in some alternate universe. But now the object of my desire is comedian Amy Schumer. Her show, Inside Amy Schumer (the name is an homage to the golden age of porn titles from the 70s), deals a lot with sex.