Tag Archives: Dr. Kat

Chelsea Manning May Have to Man Up?

gender dysphoria

It’s been heard to escape the story over the last few weeks. Not only do we have the drama of national security leaks but now we have the real struggle of someone who has been gender dysphoric and how that will pay out in a military prison. We couldn’t have made this stuff up if we tried.

Dr. Kat’s 28 Day Masturbation Challenge

28 Day Masturbation Challenge

If you’re a novice at getting yourself off, you’ll be glad to know that almost all people masturbate in some form or another. Here are a few tried-and-true techniques I’ve come up with over the years. These daily tips can help you make the most of your self-pleasuring.

Dr. Kat’s Toy Review of the Week – Lelo Luna Ben Wa Balls

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Dr. Kat gives a review of this week’s featured sex toy, the Lelo Luna Ben Wa Balls. Watch the video to find out if this toy is the right one for you!

The Long and the Short of Labia

the long and the short of labia

I hear from women all the time about how they worry about whether their vulvas are “normal”. They’ve somehow gotten the idea that everyone must look the same down there. Perfectly sized labial folds and demure little clitorises. I spend a lot of time reminding them that everyone is indeed, unique.

What to Do When Your Lover is Anti-Lube

lubricants

I’ve had many female clients tell me that their partner isn’t into lube. This can especially become an issue as women enter their early forties. Many don’t seem to lubricate as much despite the fact that some male partners think their wives and girlfriends should be able to get wet on their own. But sex can be painful without enough lube…ouch!

How Kate and Will Can Get Their Post Baby Sex Life Back

post baby sex

It’s baby craziness last week with the birth of the third in line to the English throne. It does seem like Kate Middleton has been pregnant forever but now that the blessed moment has finally arrived, there’s something else Kate and Wills might want to focus on and that is intimacy.

Vibrator Myths

vibrator myths

There are lots of myths when it comes to using vibrators and dildos. Sometimes there can be shades of truth but often the reality is quite different from what you and your partner might think.

I Love You Amy Schumer

Courtesy of Comedy Central

Yes, I have a girl crush. My main girl crush for years, namely Chelsea Handler has been supplanted. It’s ok Chelsea. You and I are still twins in some alternate universe. But now the object of my desire is comedian Amy Schumer. Her show, Inside Amy Schumer (the name is an homage to the golden age of porn titles from the 70s), deals a lot with sex.

10 Keys to Getting Your Libido Up and Running Again

Getting Your Libido Up and Running Again

Low libido is defined as having difficulty becoming sexually aroused. There is no measure of what makes up “enough” arousal. A low libido is a subjective experience and can be measured only by what YOU consider to be not enough sexual desire. This does not mean what your partner thinks is not enough or what you heard your neighbor thinks is normal.

Sexual Healing for Ourselves and Our Kids

Sexual Healing

I get lots of questions from people who have sexual issues, whether it is erection problems or female arousal and orgasm issues. Many of these boil down to how we all got imprinted in our childhoods and teens about sexuality. I’m talking about the messages each and everyone of us received via the media, peers, parents, school, religion etc. Most people have no idea that their presenting issue in therapy is related to negative sex messaging but it comes up more often than not.