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Dr. Kat’s Toy Review of the Week – Lelo Luna Ben Wa Balls

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Dr. Kat gives a review of this week’s featured sex toy, the Lelo Luna Ben Wa Balls. Watch the video to find out if this toy is the right one for you!

The Long and the Short of Labia

the long and the short of labia

I hear from women all the time about how they worry about whether their vulvas are “normal”. They’ve somehow gotten the idea that everyone must look the same down there. Perfectly sized labial folds and demure little clitorises. I spend a lot of time reminding them that everyone is indeed, unique.

What to Do When Your Lover is Anti-Lube

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I’ve had many female clients tell me that their partner isn’t into lube. This can especially become an issue as women enter their early forties. Many don’t seem to lubricate as much despite the fact that some male partners think their wives and girlfriends should be able to get wet on their own. But sex can be painful without enough lube…ouch!

How Kate and Will Can Get Their Post Baby Sex Life Back

post baby sex

It’s baby craziness last week with the birth of the third in line to the English throne. It does seem like Kate Middleton has been pregnant forever but now that the blessed moment has finally arrived, there’s something else Kate and Wills might want to focus on and that is intimacy.

Vibrator Myths

vibrator myths

There are lots of myths when it comes to using vibrators and dildos. Sometimes there can be shades of truth but often the reality is quite different from what you and your partner might think.

I Love You Amy Schumer

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Yes, I have a girl crush. My main girl crush for years, namely Chelsea Handler has been supplanted. It’s ok Chelsea. You and I are still twins in some alternate universe. But now the object of my desire is comedian Amy Schumer. Her show, Inside Amy Schumer (the name is an homage to the golden age of porn titles from the 70s), deals a lot with sex.

10 Keys to Getting Your Libido Up and Running Again

Getting Your Libido Up and Running Again

Low libido is defined as having difficulty becoming sexually aroused. There is no measure of what makes up “enough” arousal. A low libido is a subjective experience and can be measured only by what YOU consider to be not enough sexual desire. This does not mean what your partner thinks is not enough or what you heard your neighbor thinks is normal.

Sexual Healing for Ourselves and Our Kids

Sexual Healing

I get lots of questions from people who have sexual issues, whether it is erection problems or female arousal and orgasm issues. Many of these boil down to how we all got imprinted in our childhoods and teens about sexuality. I’m talking about the messages each and everyone of us received via the media, peers, parents, school, religion etc. Most people have no idea that their presenting issue in therapy is related to negative sex messaging but it comes up more often than not.

Farrah Abraham: Reluctant Porn Star?

reluctant porn star

Farrah Abraham is everywhere. There are apparently millions of people online who are willing to pay to see her get down and dirty with porn star James Deen. Although like many celebrities, she has maintained that her sex tape was only meant for her private consumption. She says, as a way to document her fabulous body at its peak. But she has also said that the act of making the video was to embrace her sexuality.

Cunnilingus Fear – Can Oral Sex Cause Throat Cancer?

Cunnilingus Fear

Actor Michael Douglas, who is currently appearing in the Liberace biopic, Behind the Candelabra, came out this week as saying that his bout of throat cancer he recently experienced  may have been caused by all of the oral sex that he performed on women over the years.