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Sexual Healing for Ourselves and Our Kids

Sexual Healing

I get lots of questions from people who have sexual issues, whether it is erection problems or female arousal and orgasm issues. Many of these boil down to how we all got imprinted in our childhoods and teens about sexuality. I’m talking about the messages each and everyone of us received via the media, peers, parents, school, religion etc. Most people have no idea that their presenting issue in therapy is related to negative sex messaging but it comes up more often than not.

Farrah Abraham: Reluctant Porn Star?

reluctant porn star

Farrah Abraham is everywhere. There are apparently millions of people online who are willing to pay to see her get down and dirty with porn star James Deen. Although like many celebrities, she has maintained that her sex tape was only meant for her private consumption. She says, as a way to document her fabulous body at its peak. But she has also said that the act of making the video was to embrace her sexuality.

Cunnilingus Fear – Can Oral Sex Cause Throat Cancer?

Cunnilingus Fear

Actor Michael Douglas, who is currently appearing in the Liberace biopic, Behind the Candelabra, came out this week as saying that his bout of throat cancer he recently experienced  may have been caused by all of the oral sex that he performed on women over the years.

50 Shades of Sex Toys – The Official Fifty Shades of Grey Collection

official 50shades toys

Yes, there is finally a sex toy line inspired by the 50 Shades of Grey book trilogy and endorsed by author EL James herself. I have to admit that I was pretty impressed with  such a terrific toy line.

The 12 Minute Sex Solution: A Realistic Guide to “Married” Sex

12min

Sex…it’s everyone’s dirty little secret. Almost 90% of us will have issues in regards to sex at some point in our lives. Yet, we don’t want to talk about it – especially with our partners. Why? Our culture doesn’t approve. 

The Secrets of the Kama Sutra Revealed

kama sutra

The Kama Sutra is the ancient Indian text of how to live a fulfilled life. The most popular section of this work has been its volume on human sexuality. Whether it’s Stiffler from America Pie or Sting extoling the virtues of complicated sex positions and hour-long orgasms, the Kama Sutra does have some benefit for the average couple.

The Last Couple Standing

last couple standing

Just like a child that still adores their old tattered blankie, many of us cling to relationships for the same reason. Our relationships may have been bruised and beaten but somehow that just endears us all the more to them.

Basic Instinct Meets Fifty Shades Thanks to Lisa Renee Jones

image from www.lisareneejones.com/

Not everyone can write erotica. I’ve read quite a bit of it over the years being an editor for a couple of different websites. Some of it is good and a lot of it is, well…let’s say not so engaging. I like the idea of women writing erotica for other women though. But we’ve sort of gotten a bad wrap over the years of being attracted to erotic lit that was pretty low brow.

Too Comfortable To Be Passionate

comfort or passion

So you freely fart in front of one another and one of you is either tweezing their chin or digging for gold when they get the chance. Being comfortable in your long-term relationship is fantastic, right?

Bad Bachelor/Bachelorette Behavior

bachelorette party

It’s getting to be that time of year again, not just blushing brides and coordinated tuxes for wedding season but beers being shotgunned and the guest of honor’s face in the crotch of some guy or girl who is paid to be there. When did it become a rite of passage to behave badly (one last time) before getting hitched?