Tag Archives: Dr. Kat

Bad Bachelor/Bachelorette Behavior

bachelorette party

It’s getting to be that time of year again, not just blushing brides and coordinated tuxes for wedding season but beers being shotgunned and the guest of honor’s face in the crotch of some guy or girl who is paid to be there. When did it become a rite of passage to behave badly (one last time) before getting hitched?

The Hows and Whys of Semen Retention

semen retention

I know what you’re thinking. What’s the point? Orgasm with ejaculation already feels good. Could it get any better? My answer is yes…potentially.

Fit for Sex – 6 Ways Staying Fit Improves Your Sex Life

Staying Fit Improves Your Sex Life

Ever wonder what the relationship is between fitness and your ability to perform in the sack? I think we can all assume a few things; longer stamina, more flexibility and strength to get into those crazy positions. But it actually goes way beyond these few benefits.

Adventure Travel Bonds Couples

Adventure Travel Bonds Couples

Vacations are not what they used to be. Lazily sipping cocktails all day, being as inactive as possible while lolling on the chaise in front of the pool, maybe fitting in a little shopping. It all seems to have gone by the wayside. The new trend in travel for many couples is eco-adventure vacations. But not for the reasons you may think.

Beyond Slut

beyond slut

I get questions from lots of progressive women who “date” a lot, that you would think would be sexually secure, but who still get caught up in moralizing their sexuality. Most of them are well-adjusted and healthy.  They just believe they should have the opportunity to sleep around like many men have throughout the eons. Unfortunately, our culture does not yet positively reinforce strongly sexual women.

5 Ways You Know You Have a Great Relationship

great relationship

Communication

When we begin our relationships, communication is often the first aspect we can assess. There are times when people are on their best behavior early on and that’s when you don’t get the real deal on how well your partner communicates often times much later.

Sex When the Going Gets Tough

Sex When the Going Gets Tough

Shit happens and for those in a partnered relationship it can be especially taxing on the ol’sex life. Whether it is trouble with the kids, health issues or money problems, how do couples continue to connect physically with one another?

I Want to Be Alone: When Couples Stop Sharing a Bed

separate beds

I grew up with parents that not only had separate beds but they each had their own room. I, at some point, realized that this wasn’t normal. All my friends’ parents seemed to share not only a room but a bed. I never thought much about it.

Penis Enlargement: The Good, the Bad and the Ugly

penis enlargement

I’ve recently gotten a few e-mails asking about surgical penis enlargement. The first thing I have to say is let’s slow down here. There are so many options to discuss before even mentioning surgery.

Sexy New Year’s Resolutions – Start the New Year with a Bang

new year resolution

New Year’s resolutions are great. They can be a catalyst for a lot of positive change — and they can also fizzle out within a month. I get the feeling that maybe you’d like to experiment with a few new tricks while adding some new sexual behaviors to your long term repertoire to keep things fresh.