Tag Archives: Dr. Kat

Beyond Slut

beyond slut

I get questions from lots of progressive women who “date” a lot, that you would think would be sexually secure, but who still get caught up in moralizing their sexuality. Most of them are well-adjusted and healthy.  They just believe they should have the opportunity to sleep around like many men have throughout the eons. Unfortunately, our culture does not yet positively reinforce strongly sexual women.

5 Ways You Know You Have a Great Relationship

great relationship

Communication

When we begin our relationships, communication is often the first aspect we can assess. There are times when people are on their best behavior early on and that’s when you don’t get the real deal on how well your partner communicates often times much later.

Sex When the Going Gets Tough

Sex When the Going Gets Tough

Shit happens and for those in a partnered relationship it can be especially taxing on the ol’sex life. Whether it is trouble with the kids, health issues or money problems, how do couples continue to connect physically with one another?

I Want to Be Alone: When Couples Stop Sharing a Bed

separate beds

I grew up with parents that not only had separate beds but they each had their own room. I, at some point, realized that this wasn’t normal. All my friends’ parents seemed to share not only a room but a bed. I never thought much about it.

Penis Enlargement: The Good, the Bad and the Ugly

penis enlargement

I’ve recently gotten a few e-mails asking about surgical penis enlargement. The first thing I have to say is let’s slow down here. There are so many options to discuss before even mentioning surgery.

Sexy New Year’s Resolutions – Start the New Year with a Bang

new year resolution

New Year’s resolutions are great. They can be a catalyst for a lot of positive change — and they can also fizzle out within a month. I get the feeling that maybe you’d like to experiment with a few new tricks while adding some new sexual behaviors to your long term repertoire to keep things fresh.

Whispering Sweet Nothings and Talking Dirty

sweet nothings

By nature some people are just more verbal. You know the ones at the coffee shop who just never shut up. It may make you think how verbal they are in bed. Which can be a good thing or in some instances a bad thing if oral rhetoric during love making drives you nuts.

New Year’s Resolution: Sex Stay-cation

stay-cation

The new year is upon us and I’d like to take the time to point out that whoever you are out there that your sex life could use a little tune up. Yes, it’s a bit like spring cleaning but what better way to improve your partnered relationship. 

Hope has Sprung: Can People Really Change

Hope-Springs

I finally got around to watching the movie Hope Springs this weekend. Several therapist friends have been on me to see it for awhile. I have to admit most films tend to mutilate the process of therapy on screen.

Spic and Span Sex

spic and span sex

I get lots of questions about sex and hygiene and boy, do they run the gamut. Usually from women who feel that they are never clean enough when it comes to their vaginas to men who are into “dirty” sex. There seems to be a lot of conjecture out there in regards to how clean we do or do not need to be.