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I Have Headache: How Sexual Rejection Can Be Good for You

sexual rejection

I know, I know. Some of you out there are probably applauding that I am now finally giving you a way out of having sex with your dear ol’wife or hubby. Enough of this Dr. Kat nonsense about having better sex all of the time. No. What I am talking about are the realities of life and how even when you are randy and your partner isn’t how there is still some benefit we can take away from it.

How Holding Hands is Good for Your Sex Life

holding hands

At times it seems the longer some couples are together the less they tend to dote on one another affectionately. You know, things like twisting one another’s hair between their fingers, rubbing their backs during long conversations, resting a hand on a knee during dinner or simply holding hands while walking down the street.

Dr. Kat’s Chemistry Quotient: How to Examine Your Relationship

examine your relationship

There are lots of reasons why we choose the partners we do. Sometimes it’s to fulfill the purpose of not being alone, some times it is out of pure unadulterated lust or love. Anyway, they all seem like good reasons at the get go. But then we get into it. You know what I mean. It’s when we cross that threshold from the honeymoon into real life, baby. This is what true compatibility is about and how the Chemistry Quotient can help you.

How to Please Men vs Women

pleasing your partner

The assumption is that often women need to be pleased on more of an emotional level and men are more physically driven but I’d be wary of making this assumption for everyone. All of us want to be sexually satisfied emotionally and physically in the long haul.

Breast Massage A Part of Breast Cancer Awareness

breast cancer awareness

I know what you’re saying, “Dr. Kat are you trying to create a cheap thrill out of a monthly breast exam?” My answer is yes and no.

Clitoral Pumps: A New Way to Masturbate?

Female Sexual Dysfunction (FSD) seems to be all the rage in the media…even Oprah is discussing it. Next thing you know, Dr. Phil will be dumping his diet book to author one on FSD. Why all of the attention now?

Lovin’ More than One: Polyamory

polyamory

I’m sure most of us at one point or another in our lives have wondered if it was possible to love more than more person romantically at a time. We’ve had some examples in the media via Sister Wives and Big Love but lo and behold that is just one brand of polyamory. There are actually many more.

Pinterest Porn

dr. kat pinterest

Ok, well sort of.

As a sexologist, I like to seek sex out in all forums. You know, ferret it out, examine it, talk about it and then put it back on the shelf to see what everyone else does with it.

Sexual Contracts ala 50 Shades of Grey

50 shades

My colleague, Dr. Petra Zebroff had a brilliant idea. Why not write a sex positive version of the sexual contract inspired by the 50 Shades of Grey. Now you may ask, “what’s the need? I loved the book. The contract included in it was hot, tantalizing and intriguing. What is there to change?”

Love it or Hate: Living the Single Life

living the single life

For whatever reason, you are living your life uncoupled at the moment. You may be in between many relationships, having just gotten through a major break up or divorce or you are a “lifer” committed to you and only you. For whatever reason, you currently know who left the milk on the counter and are the sole responsible person for making your bed and cleaning the cat litter.

Let’s talk about what’s great about being single, shall we?