I wasn’t happy at all when I was looking around and seeing that all these toys were so expensive. Beginners like me need to have a bit of variety when it comes to exploring a new fetish. What I liked about this system is that in a way, we were getting three different crops for less than $50. With a single handle, you get three different tops – the standard folded leather crop top, a heart shaped top and a hand shaped top. Each had their own thickness, so we were able to find out which style worked best for us. My wife also liked looking in the mirror after each spanking to see the various shapes of the red marks it left on her ass after she had a few whacks.

My only complaint about the Interchangeable Crop Top System is that the three crops included were all pretty much the same size, and were all quite small. On the back of the box, you can see the other separately sold tops that can fit on the handle. While there is a good variety in size and style overall, the three included in the box were a bit too similar for my liking. It would have been nice to change up the style a bit.

But at the end of the day, the main reason we got this interchangeable crop was to see if my wife would be into getting spanked with one. After a long and grueling process (said very sarcastically, mind you) we’ve decided that she’s very much into it. So I now feel more comfortable spending a bit more on spanking toys to keep the little woman smiling.

H613 – Little Flirt

“Thanks Mr. Grey! My wife is not an anal sex woman,but in the 50 shades books, the man introduces her to a butt plug, and I took advantage of it. she loves it.”

H079 – Anal Slider

“I love Harry Potter and i thought it looked like the Elder Wand… And i really wanted the Elder Wand in my Chamber of Secrets… It made me cum like magic.”

006H – Remote Control Large Power Bullet

“my wife wore it in a public pool for the first time & had three explosive orgasms.. she hardly had the strenght to get out of pool, she was weak in the knees. it was hot watching her cum in pool with strangers in pool with her. BEST BUY !!!!!”

X121 – Xtreme Power Turbo Bullet

“Hello, I recently purchased the Xtreme power turbo bullet for my wife, and wow the first time we used it, she orgasmed over and over, and over, it was like Niagara falls was in our bed, we have used a lot of bullets in the past and this one was awesome.”

Fingo Nubby Finger Vibrator – At just two inches long, this vibrating finger massager would easily slip into most handbags – even into the smaller zipped pockets inside your purse. It’s one of the more discreet vibrators on the market, but that doesn’t lessen the intensity. A powerful egg vibrator inside the Fingo will deliver sensations right where you want it, without the worry if it being obvious to someone checking through your bags. It’s a great toy for spontaneity, since it can be stored away in your pocket and retrieved out at the appropriate moment.

The Tube Stroker – While the 5.5 inch length of this male masturbator may restrict some of its portability, it is one of the more non-sexual appearing strokers available, so there’s little worry that someone will figure out exactly what it is from its looks. The simple construction doesn’t mean that it’s lacking in ability, though. Just slip the non-descript tube over your shaft, stroke, and cum. The Tube Stroker also doesn’t contain any metal, so there’s less of a chance that it will get flagged up during security checks. Since the Tube Stoker is just that – a tube – the cleanup is amazingly simple so feel free to use it in situations where a sink full of warm soapy water isn’t exactly an option, such as camping, hiking and road trips.

X-Large Ben-Wa Balls – Made popular by the best-selling Fifty Shades of Grey, Ben-Wa balls are some of the most easily portable sex toys around. This set from Adam and Eve come in their own pink pouch which wouldn’t look out of place in any purse, make-up bag or school bag. Prior to their starring role in EL James’s erotica, they were simply known as a set of stress reliving balls to the majority of the public. Now, more ladies know their sexual power, so thankfully these Ben-Wa balls can be quite discreet if you’d rather not let on that you’ve got a ‘ball in the pocket’.

Clitoral Tongue Vibrating Cock Ring – A great toy for both men and women, the Clitoral Tongue Vibrating Cock Ring is a tiny little toy that slips over a cock to not only stimulate the man wearing it, the jelly tongue ‘licks’ the clit of the lady receiving. Lesbian lovers also can use the cock ring on their dildos and dongs for dual stimulation. It’s a great addition for those adventurous lovers who are looking to have sex in unique circumstances and want the added sensation of vibration. If you’re already a card-carrying member of the mile-high club and want something new for your lavatory rendezvous, this discreet toy will check that box.

Adam & Eve Perfect P-Spot Prostate Wand – This four inch toy is one of the smaller anal play toys offered by Adam and Eve. The fact that it’s made from 100% glass will also give you the added benefit of not setting off metal detectors if you choose to carry it in your hand luggage. There’s also no moving parts or motors, so there’s no chance of it being ‘turned on’ accidentally. Men enjoy the P-Spot Prostate Wand since it can help them achieve mind-numbingly powerful orgasms through prostate massage. It’s easy to use alone , or with a partner since the O-ring base makes the toy easy to maneuver.

A few days later, I was greeted at my door by an awaiting delivery. When I opened up the box, the first thing I went for was the glass dildo. I was surprised by its sheer weight – it was heavier than any toy I had used before. I quite liked the feel, as it gave me the sense that this thing wasn’t the flimsy little bullet vibes I’d got for free from other sex toy retailers. I think the biggest thing that came as a shock to me was the temperature. This thing was cold in my hands, and I was eager to find out how it would feel in my pussy.

That night I stripped down and pulled out another one of my new purchases, the Adam and Eve Massaging Vibrator, and got myself all wet and ready. Once I was close to cumming, I slid the Blue Studs Crystal Teaser into my awaiting pussy, and immediately clamped down on it. I wasn’t used to a cold sensation down below, and it took a bit for me to relax and loosen back up. Once I did, though, the glass dildo was a delight. There was no give with this toy – it was pure hard pounding pleasure. The bumps on the side gave me that much more of a pleasing sensation, and before I knew it I was bucking my hips up from one of the more intense orgasms I’d ever had.

I’ve since learned that if you’re not into the cold temperature that glass toys start out as, you can easily warm them in a bowl of hot water, until they reach the desired temperature. The first time for me was a bit of a shock, but I am really into it now. I love how it starts off all cold then warms up to my body temperature as I use it.

Once we got his cock out, we left the mold to harden overnight. You only needed to wait a few hours, but it was late, and I was horny. The next morning we mixed up the hardening materials and poured them into the cock-mold. I was a bit worried that the mold didn’t fill up all the way, but as soon as I inserted the vibrator, it filled it up to the top. We left it to cure for the day, and the next morning, with our coffees in hand, we unmolded our new dildo.

Lifelike doesn’t begin to describe it. Each vein and fold of my husband’s cock is in this toy. Even the strange little scar pattern from his circumcision is in there. And the use? The dildo we got from this make-your-own-cock set is just as good as those you can buy in the store. The only difference being that the majority of the dildos and dongs that I see have the balls included. I suppose you could somehow make a set that’ll include those as well. Maybe it’s something the Clone-A-Willy folks will look into?

The top vibe is placed in a way that it bumps up against my clit when my husband is all the way in, so you get triple the sensation. The bottom bullet not only makes the dildo into a vibrator, it also is in a place that my husband can feel the vibrations against his sack. If you’re not into vibrations, you can remove the bullets from the Double Penetrator Ultimate Cock Ring and just use it as a dildo. This toy make me cum quicker than I ever had with my husband using his fingers or other toys before, so I would certainly say it gets the job done.

It’s super easy to clean up, as well. Once we were done (and recovered), I just popped out the bullets and took the toy into the shower with me. A little shampoo here and there, and every trace of my juice mixed with the lube we used were down the drain. If you’re new to DP, you may want to have a try with what you have around the house, to be sure that sort of stimulation is what you like. Once you’ve figured out what works for you, though, I strongly suggest getting the Double Penetrator Ultimate Cock Ring for some DP action!!

The Lelo Ono was quite a bit bigger than I anticipated it would be. I’m used to clit vibrators being little hand-held toys which are quite discreet. Not the Ono! Rather than the kind of toy that you hold in your hand and press against your body, the Lelo Ono is at its best when it is ridden on. It’s big – not as big as the other famous riding sex toy, the Sybian but it will certainly take up some space in your toy chest. It’s about the size of a softball without the suction cup base attached.

The Ono didn’t spent too much time in my toy chest before I broke it out for a try. The morning after it arrived, I took it out, popped in 3 AA batteries, and screwed the base onto the unit. The threads didn’t like up quite well, so it too a bit more effort than I’d like to get the bottom back on. I decided that rather than taking this waterproof toy into the shower to try it out in all its glory, I’d have a go at it in my bedroom. The two button control was easy to use, and soon enough it’s quite hum was drowned out by the sound of my own heartbeat in my ears as my head thrashed back and forth with pleasure. My first round, I was flat on my back, pressing the toy against me. Round two consisted of me mounting it cowgirl style, with the fat end stimulating my vagina while the smaller end teased my clit. The second orgasm came faster and harder than the first, and was certainly something that I’d want to experience again.

Later that night, my desire for the Lelo Ono peaked again, and I decided to try out the toy on my back end. I mounted it again, and maneuvered the fat end onto my ass, while the smaller end played with my perineum. Using my We-Vibe Touch on my clit, I was close to being overloaded with pleasurable sensations.

Both the Lelo Ono and the We-Vibe Touch are pretty higher-end toys. They aren’t for ladies who aren’t sure what they like. But, if you’re someone like me who has a decent amount of experience with sex toys, and you want something that pushes all the right buttons, I would whole-heartedly suggest making the investment. These toys are manufactured by companies who are known for their quality toys, so your investment won’t be a waste!

Now…which Lelo toy to add to my wish list to replace the Ono? The Lyla Sense Motion looks quite delicious….

Waterproof Adult Pleasure Toy for Bathtime Fun!

Blue Dolphin

You’ll flip for this sensually slick waterproof vibrator! The Blue Dolphin is an aquatic twist on a classic vibrator, complete with a beautiful cobalt hue, sensual veined texture, and a beginner-friendly length and girth for comfortable solo explorations. The flexible jelly warms up quickly to feel like a real lover, and the slender ding-a-ling head tip glides in easily with just a touch of a favorite lubricant.

Every adult pleausre toy collection should include a classic vibrator, and the Blue Dolphin is the perfect candidate, with its waterproof design and adjustable speeds for more versatility. Easy to clean with mild soap and water, the soft jelly material is also compatible with all types of lubricants for pleasurable play. To ensure long lasting fun, be sure to wash the toy after each session, and remove the batteries prior to storing.

When deciding on the amount of money to spend on a sex toy, you should be taking several factors into account. How much use do you plan on getting out of it? Do you mind the hassle of replacing batteries? Does the ‘look’ of a toy make a difference to you?  Would you prefer a well-known brand that costs more? Are you comfortable with your body and know what feels the best?

Lelo set

At the high end of the market are the Lelo brand of sex toys. The Lelo Ina Pleasure Object retails for $170 on Adam and Eve. You may gasp at the thought of spending three figures on a sex toy, but let’s have a look at the qualities of this five-star rated vibrator. This is a ‘rabbit’ style vibrator, with a simple design – ideal for those who roll their eyes at the bunny-ear styled stimulators and exaggerated cock design. Rather than using batteries, this Lelo is rechargeable, which is a must-have for frequent use. You also get a yearlong manufacturer’s warranty, since Lelo stands behind the quality of their products. The reviews from users are all positive, with the number of sales of this higher end vibrator also playing testament to its highly regarded quality.

If you are going to be making this type of investment into a vibe, be sure that this is the style that you want. This isn’t a ‘trial’ vibe that you’d toss aside if it doesn’t please you in the right ways. It’s a big-girl’s vibrator, not a bachelorette party favour.

The opposite end of the spectrum is the Mini Rabbit Vibro Wand. It’s a great starter vibe for those who are just exploring the rabbit style. Are you a bit unsure if you’d prefer the dual stimulation? Start off with a rabbit vibrator like this one. It does have the typical bunny ears and cock shaped phallus, and is powered by changeable batteries. Retailing for just under $25, it’s not nearly as large of a shock to the wallet as the Lelo, but with the drop in price comes a drop in overall drop in quality as well. This item is rated at 3 stars on the Adam and Eve site, with a mixed group of comments from users.

The amount of money to spend on sex toys largely depends on what your expectations are. The phrase ‘you get what you pay for’ applies to vibrators just as much as any other purchase, so it’s important to evaluate your needs before making a decision on which end of the market to go for.